Sometimes you look for the little things in life to give it real meaning. A few weeks ago I was spending nights in the hospital watching over my 92 year old father. He suffers Alzheimer's, pneumonia, and several other problems. He hasn't known who I am, or most other folks as well, for some time now. When he isn't in the hospital he's in an assisted living facility.
Twice in the three nights while I was with him in the hospital I glanced over at him and found that he had been watching me. Apparently he had been studying me. Suddenly, twice--two different nights--when he saw that I had discovered him looking at me and studying me he flashed his famous big grin and his patented wink. For those quick moments I think he knew who I was. For those quick moments we had a form of real communication. Those quick moments were worth all of the effort to be there. Those quick moments will be treasured forever.
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